Read the Unreadable, The Guide to Dating an Aquarius
January 20 - February 18
Aquarius’ motivation in dating is to maintain their independence in their partnership.
Why an Aqua sun turns you on...
They are intelligent and discerning. You have the space to express your ideas. They're goofy and you laugh at their quirky sense of humor.
Why an Aqua venus turns you on...
They're open minded, genuinely concerned about your well being. They have a compelling vision for the future. They're not possessive and give you space.
Why an Aqua sun turns you off...
They're aloof and you don't get them. They wouldn't fit into your friend group or family. Being around someone who's always in their heads is a turn off. Plus they're child like and impractical.
Why an Aqua venus turns you off...
They need too much space. It's like dating an alien. You don't want to take the time to be friends with them. And you have no idea how they feel about you. And they act weird when you ask direct questions about it.
Why you feel neutral towards Aqua...
The whole rebel without a cause thing is played out. You want someone who will be front and center, being the life of the party with you. You're very practical and not interested in a "dreamer". You're not interested in a friends with benefits to relationship transition. And definitely a one person type of guy/gal/person.
Not sure, but want to understand them more?
If Aqua is your date's sun and/or venus sign...
- Ask about their long term vision and goals
- Let them know if/when you'd like marriage and/or kids. But don't pressure them to know if they want that with you initially
- Emotionally charged conversations are a big no. Mainly because they won’t know how to respond.
- Be prepared to have intellectually stimulating conversations, so ask them about their interests. And talk about yours
Part of it is their sign, but this Aquarius is just an asshole...
- Condescending or belittling behavior
- Angry outbursts
- Obsessiveness
- Unwarranted trolling
- Refusal to take accountability for their harmful actions
- Pathological lying