October 23 - November 21

Scorpio’s motivation in dating is to understand you deeply...and possess you.

Why Scorpio Sun will turn you on...

You've never felt so seen. This person is genuinely interested in you and makes you feel like you're the only person in the room. They exude a quiet power and charisma that makes you feel empowered.

Why Scorpio Venus will turn you on...

Scorpio moves in silence. For some reason, you're telling them your deepest, darkest secrets within the first meeting. They're mysterious and you're intrigued. They keep you guessing.. and laughing.

Why Scorpio sun will turn you off...

You don't get a clear sense of who they are. It seems like they're hiding something, but you're not sure what. Talking to them weighs you down or feels invasive.

Why Scorpio venus will turn you off..

Scorpio can be hard to truly get to know. And that makes you feel uncomfortable. Their emotions seem to come from nowhere. And they constantly want your time and attention or they're eerily silent.

Why you feel neutral towards Scorpio...

You like direct and easy going relationships. You're not particularly interested in how people work or why they work the way they do. The idea of spending all your time with one person isn't your cup of tea. Holding power over people or in a particular domain isn't important to you. Plus, you don't "do" emotions.

Not sure yet, but want to understand Scorpio more?

If Scorpio is your date's sun sign...

- What are your favorite tv, musical artists, films?

- Ask about their friends!

- Ask about their hobbies and work

If Scorpio is your date's venus sign...

- Ask about sexual kinks and preferences.

- Give them space and time to figure out if they like you

- What would your ideal relationship look like?

Part of it is their sign, but this Scorpio is just an asshole...

- Ghosting

- Angry outbursts

- Emotional blackmail

- Verbal degradation and abuse

- Emotional abuse and stonewalling

- Pressuring you to do things you don't want to do