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Taking the Guesswork out of Dating a Capricorn So You Don’t Have to

December 22 - January 19

*This applies to Capricorn Sun and Venus signs. You can use this guide to understand your Capricorn friends too.

Capricorn’s motivation towards dating is to seek the other half of their idea of a power couple... or they will use you to serve some purpose.

Why a Cap sun turns you on...

They are deliberate and intentional. A few dates in they will make it clear their intentions and why they like you. They'll show up consistently.

Why a Cap venus turns you on...

They move slowly and consistently. Once they settle down... they settle. And they will seek to make sure you're comfortable and safe during the initial dating process.

Why a Cap sun turns you off...

They move at a snails pace. Their life revolves around work. And they have weird boundaries regarding their space and food. And that's not even mentioning their stubbornness.

Why a Cap venus turns you off...

Those with venus placements can be emotionally distant, especially when stressed. You will do the same things on each date. The lack of imagination is apparent. Traditional methods of romanticism are missing.

Why you feel neutral towards Cap...

You want novelty in your dating process and you’re not keen on settling down over the next few months. You don’t have the same drive or ambition in regards to career or business. The idea of a power couple or doting working wife doesn’t appeal to you either.

Not sure, but want to understand them more?

If Capricorn is your date's sun sign...

- Ask about their work and accomplishments

- One goal they have within the next year

- What are your hobbies and outlets?

If Capricorn is your date's venus sign...

- When do you want marriage and kids?

- What would you like to accomplish before those milestones?

- What qualities does their ideal person have?

Part of it is their sign, but this Capricorn is just an asshole...

- Stonewalling

- Requesting money, sex or compliance because they paid for a date or did you a favor

- Degrading language & character assassinations